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Master Don Juan
whatever wutangfinancial says I'm with, because as well all know.. Wu Tang Clan ain't nothin to Fvck with!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'll play devil's advocate.azanon said:97% of the population has no business (attempting to) buy and sell individual securities, be them bonds or stocks. Most people are far better off buying mutual funds.
Unless you're, say, a financial analyst by profession such as Clooney, ignore any advise to read any book that would have you buying individuals stocks and bonds. There are so many other better things to do with your time. The chance of an ameteur beating a vanilla index stock mutual fund(s) over a long period of time are very slim.
Also, avoid reading scam-artist books suck as any written by Kiyosaki. Right this very moment, many people are learning the hard way about the fools gold in real estate "investing" (which is much more accurately described as a job, than an investment). With mere investments, you don't actually do much of anything.
Most people need more help learning how to manage money, budget, and learning save vs. spending discipline than on how to get the highest return on their money. It kills me how people will spend so much of their day studying how to invest in stocks when they don't save enough to even make the effort worth their time! Because of my saving discipline, I don't need super high returns to have a lot of money. Saving discipline is where it's at. Your rate of return is ancillary compared to that!
If the average mutual fund manager who usually has related degrees out the wazoo, spends all day picking stocks/visiting companies, and is paid 100s of thousands of dollars to do exactly this can't beat an index stock fund (this is a true statement that's been well documented and demonstrated) covering the spread of the expense ratio, then what makes you think you (or anyone else) can?GQ_Confidence_1 said:-You get better over time. I dont think you're going to learn it instantly, but there's alot of books out there. There are alot of different strategies. Similar patterns repeat (this time it's different!).
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think mutual fund managers are in a different game than the average investor.azanon said:If the average mutual fund manager who usually has related degrees out the wazoo, spends all day picking stocks/visiting companies, and is paid 100s of thousands of dollars to do exactly this can't beat an index stock fund (this is a true statement that's been well documented and demonstrated) covering the spread of the expense ratio, then what makes you think you (or anyone else) can?
In short, can you beat an index fund? Here's how to tell: find a random number generator on the net, set it to a range of 1 to 100, and roll it. if you hit exactly 100, then maybe you can. ~80% of fund managers cant do it; how much higher is this percentage for the average joe doing it in his/her spare time????
Wanna get rich? Focus more on how you can make more money in your occupation, or trade. Once you make the money, find something autopilot-like to protect and grow it; again, like index funds. "Day-trading" or simply buying and selling stocks yourself for any holding time period is about as legitimate an occupation as gambling in Las Vegas.
You have described random walk theory, the idea that it is impossible to predict the markets. The academic world still teaches that theory, but traders laugh at it. If the market could not be beaten, then there would be no George Soros or Warren Buffett. Random walk theory says that they have done the impossible.azanon said:In short, can you beat an index fund? Here's how to tell: find a random number generator on the net, set it to a range of 1 to 100, and roll it. if you hit exactly 100, then maybe you can. ~80% of fund managers cant do it; how much higher is this percentage for the average joe doing it in his/her spare time????
For almost everyone that is true, I agree.azanon said:Wanna get rich? Focus more on how you can make more money in your occupation, or trade. Once you make the money, find something autopilot-like to protect and grow it; again, like index funds.
Although they are in the vast minority, there are still profitable day traders and swing traders in the markets. It is a very legitimate occupation. The financial markets benefit from all participants - the more people, the better. Every trader adds liquidity and lowers the transaction costs of everyone else.azanon said:"Day-trading" or simply buying and selling stocks yourself for any holding time period is about as legitimate an occupation as gambling in Las Vegas.