"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For all the beginners: EYE CONTACT

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THE 100% NECESSARY OPENER

It doesn't matter how well you can talk, or how much C&F you've "mastered", or how rich your daddy is, if you can't MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT, you might as well stay home!

If you are constantly avoiding the eyes of a woman when trying to approach(looking down etc), it makes you look WEAK! The most wonderful of diatribes could be spouting from your beak, but none of it would matter because your eyes are on the floor, not the girl! And the woman you are "talking" to would be thinking: "man, this guy is a real weakling. He can't even look me in the eye when he talks to me. He can't have much integrity"

EYES communicate more effectively than speech in pick-up situations. For instance:

If a girl is maintaining eye contact with you as you are speaking, she isn't showing signs of disinterest.

If a girl is occasionally throwing glances to the floor, it means that she's really interested and is worried about what she says next. You intimidate her, just like any proper man should.

If a girl is looking everywhere but in your eyes (over your shoulder, to her sides), it means that its over, pal, and you should jump ship ASAP. Disinterested to the max.

So, before you go researching PUA, C&F, NLP, LOL, GWAO, ROFLMAO, etc., master the skill of EYE CONTACT ASAP!


Remember this tip: Eye contact is the BEST OPENER!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Although this wasn't in a seduction situation my cousin who happens to be good looking maintained EC. I held it for about 30 seconds but had to back away after that - it just got too awkward. (There was no sign of sexual interest of course!):rolleyes:
 
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I hope he atleast paid for breakfast in the morning. LOL just messing.
 
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I had some eye contact going with a girl the other day. Didn't break eye contact and it was a very nice moment. I noticed her trying to 'read' my eyes (could see her eyes moving while engaged with mine) during a silent moment. Needless to say, had I broken eye contact, that moment would not have happened. Plus, like you mentioned I would've looked like a real weakling.
 
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I wear glasses - this must impact on the EC surely? I've read that wearing glasses may make you more untrustworthy because you can't see the eyes properly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pagelover,

I suggest that you get contacts. Glasses glare and for the most part people look better without glasses on.
 
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i tried eye contacts but i couldn't get them in, so I'm still blind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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