"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For all new to the game: go upper class

Exo

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Think this has been mentioned before(probably in the bible) but it worked for me so here goes.

If you got economics or physics you know it pays to go big, same with women when starting out it seems. I just got reject by some 5~6's and coupled with what hapaned with that ******* :cuss: my confidence was and is prety low. A friend of mine(super AFC) told me to try one of the hotest girls in our school. Being somewhat riped at the time I figured ,WTF everyone else is so why not me. So I go up and say "hey watcha readin?" Was some generic thriller, we had a little chat and I got a reminder to call her on 8pm thursday on my cell now( direct call too - I got her #).

Point is that the hotest chicks invariably get hit on all the time. Litrelly all of my friends have( non total AFC's anyway) so WTF, I joined the club. If I got reject it's nothing new.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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fantastic field report.

and good point. what have you got to lose? any guy makes fun of you for being turned down, you konw you can turn it right around on him and ask why he isnt boning her.
 

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Exo!!!!

My man, thanks for finally finding a way to say "hop on the bandwagon"

JayUK, you missed it completely, he said hit on the hot girls, everybody else does it... You said go and treat her badly. Smooth as diarrhea man.
 
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