Foot thing...and mean thing...

[Salacious D]

No, not foot fetish.

I read somewhere that one of the ways you could gauge a girl's interest is if she points her feet toward you in class. If she does it a lot, then the interest is higher. Is there any merit to this?

Also, the whole thing about girls being mean to you in a joking manner. This one girl will change the tone of her voice and tell me to basically lay off not all the time, but enough so that I notice it. She is also deliberately mean to me when we hang out, suggesting that I'm the one who should do the stupid, crazy stunts we do when we go on "adventures." I know she isn't serious about the whole mean thing, so does that up her IL in me or what? There has been some kino, not enough, that's the thing I'm worst at unfortunately, but one time we hung out at a playground, I was climbing up a chain ladder and she jumped up, grabbed onto my shoulders and tried to pull me down. Whaddya think, eh, eh?

edit: okay one more thing. Different girl. I guess I'm just looking for general advice. She just moved, like, five hundred feet down the street from me. She calls me her "bus buddy," and one time in a class she came over and picked me up, let me try to describe it, with our chests facing each other. She managed to lift me off the ground quite a bit for her size versus mine. Anyway, also, going home on the bus, she was sitting right in front of me, pretty close, long stares good, long convo etcetera, and my sister, who was also on the bus, said that after I got off to go work out at the Y she didn't say anything to anyone at all. While I was there she was pretty talkative to not just me, but everyone on the bus.

 

[seloifter]

*cough* overanalyzing *cough*

 

[Salacious D]

There's nothing wrong with overanalyzing.

 

[dbot]

yes there is... your initial instincts are usually the most accurrate. Overanalyzing is unnecessary because regardless of what you conclude by your intense study, there is nothing you can do about it. If you aren't sure whether or not a girl is interested in you, save yourself a sh!tload of time and just assume she is.

 

[Salacious D]

Okay, let's say that this time I'd rather not trust my initial instincts, because I think that I blow things out of proportion way too often, and generally this results in the asking for the phone number from parties not inclined to give out said phone number.

And if you'd rather not, I guess I understand. But what about the foot thing, huh?

 

[blienk]

I wouldn't put too much stock into the feet thing. Most of the time I'm sitting in a class, I just put my feet where it's comfortable and I don't think girls are much different.

A better indicator is probably the overall position of her body when she talks to you. If she fully faces you and/or leans forward to be closer to you, that's a good sign. If she faces away from you/makes no attempt at intimacy then that is less encouraging.

 

[dbot]

If she doesn't give you her number, then oh well, it's no big deal. Think of it this way: You can either...

think about it for a few days and decide that she doesn't like you, and that you shouldn't waste your time with her

OR

Take a couple minutes to ask for her phone number and when she rejects you, you realize that she doesn't like you and she isn't worth your time.


No matter which path you take, you will come to the same conclusion (she either likes you or she doesn't).

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

Yeah I've always had a little prob like that, but I've gotten on to girl's games.


I would ponder on why certain chicks will say you're ugly or some bullsh*t, but then you meet a really hot chick and they're really receptive to you or whatever.

I guess the pretty ones(7 and above) have better taste as well?

and also about numbers, something kinda weird happened last week. This went back to my previous school year. I asked this one girl(HB8) for her number at the end of the year and she gave me an obvious excuse to not give me her number, and so I was like **** it ya know? well the other day I came into the store she works in to buy a sweater(it's getting a little chilly) and so when I was getting checked out, she was within site(she came up to me and was talking to me for a little bit, until I left her ass because I'm always more interested in getting clothes than talking to a girl) and so I thought to myself "ahh what the hell, I'll give it one more try" and so instead of asking for her digits like previously done, I told her to give me her number. And she did. I guess in some cases, a little persistance pays off. I called her after the football game that Friday night, and we chatted for a couple of seconds as I was driving to my destination(I was gonna get drunk) and so let her go. And this whole past week I stopped talking to her and went ganji on her ass, because I don't want to develop oneitis with her again.(sorry if its not on the subject, I thought i'd let you broes know)

 

[Julian]

Well considering the title of this thread i just wanted to comment. Im not into feet but i can appreciate a girl who has nice feet.

Like 2 months ago i was at my friends graduation party and there was this exotic beauty there. She was perfectly tanned, perfect in every way physically. And she was barefoot on the couch with her legs stretched out. And damn did i have some sexual desires. Not only was she perfect her feet were too and that is a dope thing.

I think we can all relate, chicks with ugly feet are a huge turnoff.

 

[Salacious D]

I couldn't care less about feet. I'm too traditional. Tarentino has a foot fetish, I hear.

I was thinking about it, the whole history of my asking for phone numbers, and I actually don't think I've had luck that was that bad. I've only asked a few times, I kind of like to get to know someone before I feel like boning them, but anyway, my record is this (as far as I can remember, there's probably more).

First time, procured phone number, turned out girl wasn't interested. She's the biggest flirt I've ever met, though, and we're friends now three years later.

Second time, success. Then I backed out on the whole thing when I kind of realized I wasn't into her. I could have easily taken it all the way though.

Third time, all out rejection. We talk sometimes, she's the hottest girl I've ever met.

Fourth time I can remember, gave me a bogus number. Kind of a *****y thing to do.

Anyway

If she doesn't give you her number, then oh well, it's no big deal. Think of it this way: You can either...

think about it for a few days and decide that she doesn't like you, and that you shouldn't waste your time with her

OR

Take a couple minutes to ask for her phone number and when she rejects you, you realize that she doesn't like you and she isn't worth your time.

Yeah. You're absolutely right. Actually, with the second girl I described, who is deliberately mean to me, I never quite asked for her number, and we've never hung out alone. I'm always the one to call her and invite her over, though. Her number's in the phone book, and she's friends with a friend of mine, so, yeah.

The second one will definitely give me her number, and I'm pretty sure she's into me. Not positive. I'm just not sure that I'm into her. She's nice, funny, pretty, but she's kind of a "hick chick." We'll have to see how things play themselves out.

I wouldn't put too much stock into the feet thing. Most of the time I'm sitting in a class, I just put my feet where it's comfortable and I don't think girls are much different.

Well, this is something I noticed. With me, if I can face the girl (like, we're sitting in class as opposed to a theater, our school has one), point my feet at her, whatever, I will do so subconsciously. Almost always. I'll completely forget about the feet thing for awhile, then check back on myself and say, "yeah, I'm pointing them out there. That's kind of wierd."