"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Food Suggestions

Not Quite There

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I'm trying to eat stuff with more calories to put on weight, what kind of stuff should i be looking at?

I've bene eating loads of pistachio nuts this week, which are high in protein 2, any other snacks like this which are good?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The-Sultan

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hmm, i would aslo like to know :) Im very skinny and need to puton wieght
 

Maestro Monk

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Your best bet for gaining weight is to eat often, as in every several hours.

if you're looking to pack on LEAN weight, you will need an overall balanced diet that provides high levels of protein, carbs and fat. An emphasis should be placed on 'complex' starchy carbs, which are slower-burning than 'simple' carbs.

When eating grains, look for whole-wheat breads and cereals.

Don't forget those meats, as they are one of the most important sources of protein.

Some examples of foods that are often associated with bulking and compliment a balanced diet: oatmeal, pasta, potatoes, leafy green veggies, 'natural' peanut butter. There are many others, these are just some of my favourites.
Just do a google search..you will see see other good choices out there.
 

EFFORT

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Maestro Monk hit it right on with the carbs

Here some good protein sources in no particular order

Beef
Turkey
Chicken
Tuna
Eggs
Whey


If your trying to gain this calculator is
useful to get your totals

http://michaelandkendra.com/BMRCALC/bmrcalc.htm

divide those numbers into 6-7 meals and go with solid food first and once your full from that use a protein shake with oats to make the difference.

Don't worry about fat to much just stay away from junk.
 
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