"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheDonUK

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Hi all....

Im about to move out of where i am now, i got a bench, weights, punchbag set up in the new place.... i regularly cycle to and from college (point is i got cardo going)....

I wanna get into shape, at the moment im overweight and its mostly down to the **** i eat, whats good food for cuting down for someone who cant really cook (jist basic things)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NRM

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Lean meats, fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grain wheat bread, wholesome foods. Basically all the stuff your mother would be happy to feed you. As with most people, it's the junk that kills you.
 

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I want to do both... but im pretty sure its the food thats holding me back, and i have been looking around for somewhere to learn to cook so i can prepare my own healthy meals... but for the time being while im starting getting a whole healthier lifestyle i need healthy things to eat that arent to hard to prepare.

Am i am quite good with fruit most days i will have a few bananas and a few apples.... i read the "Cutting guide" theres alot of good advice in there by the looks of it but not much todo with actual dishes i should be eating.... saying eat more protene to someone who doesent cook and doesent really know whats in most foods (im working on it.... ) is like saying the rear axel is distorted and is affecting the HP output to someone who has no interest in cars. :) bad analogy but you get the point...
 

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Sazuko, I'm impressed. Instead of saying "uh. . . eat better" you went out and did something really helpful. Good job man
 

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Wow thanks man, you really put in the effort there, much appreciated...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good work Sazuko.

TheDonUK - Good job getting yourself into shape. Let us know how things go. Also, Check out the site that Sazuko got those links from. They have pretty good advice there too.
 
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