"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Follow your gut instinct

mahon83050

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Listen up and I have been right 9 out of 10 times because I ended up hooking up with the girls or going out with them:


"If you think a girl finds you attractive or would like to go with you, she 90% probably does."

Don't be naive and think, Aww she is probably just being nice or only sees me as a friend. (If she is engaged or married, this maybe, but if not, she is prob. interested) Remember, women most likely will NEVER ask you out or make the first direct contact. They will however, subtely give you indirect signals they like you (we know what they are by now).

Trust your gut instinct and remember the eyes never lie!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sapphire

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Yea, I agree. It is all in the eyes.

If I get a lingering stare or glance, I will approach and more likely than not the girl is interested.
 

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that depends, because in my case i think i would be wrong to think that. I honestly seem to think just about every girl that i like, likes me. I just think that in almost all cases, and that can not be true, or can it? ;) *hopes it can* :p
 
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