"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bigplay41

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So I've been dating this girl and asked her out for drinks and pool on Monday, she responded with "That sounds perfect. I think I close Monday tho. I'll let you know when I get my schedule" do I wait for her to txt me her schedule or send her a text monday to see if she's free.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Harry Wilmington

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Wait til Sunday. If she hasn't hit you up by then (red flag), contact her on Sunday afternoon and say "Hey there, just checking to see if you got your schedule for Monday yet so I could figure out all the plans." Simple.
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
Wait til Sunday. If she hasn't hit you up by then (red flag), contact her on Sunday afternoon and say "Hey there, just checking to see if you got your schedule for Monday yet so I could figure out all the plans." Simple.
spot on, If she hasn't hit you up by Sunday the Red flag is she is mostly not interested and was flaking to begin with. Good luck!
 
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