So I've been dating this girl and asked her out for drinks and pool on Monday, she responded with "That sounds perfect. I think I close Monday tho. I'll let you know when I get my schedule" do I wait for her to txt me her schedule or send her a text monday to see if she's free.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Follow up text?
- Thread starter Bigplay41
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