Follow Up Question

[LoneSilver]

Ok most know about the Walmart lady and how that she went cold and didn't say anything after I told her I'd like to get to know her better and I walked out without saying anything last week. Well, today I didn't expect to go shopping but I decided to help my mom with hers so I picked up a few items while mom was doing hers. When I came to cash out there Rhonda was she was a cashier so I just got in line and when she spotted me she gave me a look and looked away as if saying oh know not him again kind of looks. So I just took my stuff out of my cart and put it on the counter and in the mean time there was a little baby in front of me with her mom so I started goo goo gaa gaa with the baby and the little baby started laughing and enjoying my funny faces etc. I would look over at Rhonda and this lady just seems like she's mad at the dam world even before she spotted me and maybe not so much me but I could be wrong because what lady doesn't get a kick out of a baby laughing and having fun and wouldn't at least smile at it which she didn't bat an eye?

So after the lady in front of me got through and smiling real big at me for entertaining her baby I was waiting for Rhonda to wait on me and I was going to say her name and ask her hows she was doing but she turned it over to another lady I was like what the hell and she walked back to where she's orginally works in the Customer Service area. I went on to the truck and came back in checking on my Mom and I noticed there was another coworker only a guy that was over there talking to Rhonda and another lady coworker and notice he was looking my way.

To make a long story short I just went to the truck and waited for my Mom and while I was waiting I noticed Rhonda coming out and getting into a van and drove off. I looked at the time thinking maybe she was getting off work but she came back and just sat in her van this was a good 45 minutes of waiting and she was in view of my truck and every move. I finally just drove up to the front of the store got out and went in to check again on my Mom and she finally came out where I took the groceries and put them in the bed of the truck and let my Mom in the cab making sure her door was shut all in view of Rhonda but I never looked her way.

How do you read this and does a woman play hard to get before you really get to know them or before a first date or does this lady have major issues to deal with and me helping my Mom shouldn't that make any woman a little more comfortable about a guy if she's not sure about him or does it make it worst? I know I should move on but this lady never said if she was married or had a boyfriend or anything.

Thanks

LoneSilver

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

hey, I too have a girl named rhonda in my harem. I don't know what to make of your situation. You told her that you would like to get to know her, she goes cold, maybe she just doesnt like you? How could she have such disgust for someone she barely knows?

 

[LoneSilver]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
hey, I too have a girl named rhonda in my harem. I don't know what to make of your situation. You told her that you would like to get to know her, she goes cold, maybe she just doesnt like you? How could she have such disgust for someone she barely knows?

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Exactly the thing I'm trying to figure out or I shouldn't be as I should just move on unless shes playing hard to get and this was a lady who had earlier given me the animal lust stare but I properly waited to long to approach and she's just disgusted at me for that but looks like she would have just said hey dude I'm married or I have a boyfriend but she never said anything unlike most mature women do when a man ask such questions .

I chat often on the net with a lady named Rhonda and shes the sweetest lady I have ever talked with can't figure this Rhonda out and should be saying next.

Thanks

LoneSilver

 

[FratAndDiddy]

sounds strange to me.
i wouldnt analyze anymore of this chick. i would stay out of her way .

 

[LoneSilver]

Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
sounds strange to me.
i wouldnt analyze anymore of this chick. i would stay out of her way .

I agree and have sense moved on but still waiting for an opportunity to let this woman see me with a lady friend of mine whose hotter than hell>humor


Thanks for you reply.

LoneSilver

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

To be honest, it sounds like Rhonda is afraid of you and thinks you're creepy. She isn't playing "hard to get", she's playing "I'm on the verge of getting a restraining order."

I remember your posts about wanting to ask this girl out. Do you have a post about actually asking her out?

 

[LoneSilver]

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
To be honest, it sounds like Rhonda is afraid of you and thinks you're creepy. She isn't playing "hard to get", she's playing "I'm on the verge of getting a restraining order."

I remember your posts about wanting to ask this girl out. Do you have a post about actually asking her out?

Sure it's might be titles I found out her name or something not sure where it's at now but I made mention to her I would like to get to know her better this was the day I had found out her name and where she lived and was a week over I had approached her and told her I found her beautiful but left it at that until a week later. If she felt I was creepy then why would she have bothered giving me that info and also having a coworker summons me to her?

LoneSilver

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

Originally posted by LoneSilver
Sure it's might be titles I found out her name or something not sure where it's at now but I made mention to her I would like to get to know her better this was the day I had found out her name and where she lived and was a week over I had approached her and told her I found her beautiful but left it at that until a week later. If she felt I was creepy then why would she have bothered giving me that info and also having a coworker summons me to her?

LoneSilver

I found your previous post. Honestly, I'm surprised you're still giving her a chance. She seemed pretty cold that last time.

Also, I recall you saying you're older compared to her age. No offense, but that might not be her thing. She might be creeped out.

 

[penkitten]

all this stalking talk is not kewl

 

[LoneSilver]

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
I found your previous post. Honestly, I'm surprised you're still giving her a chance. She seemed pretty cold that last time.

Also, I recall you saying you're older compared to her age. No offense, but that might not be her thing. She might be creeped out.

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At a distance she seemed much younger but up close the day I had talked with her after she had me summons to her by a coworker and the time I found out her name she appears to be 40ish. This was a week after I had told her I thought she was beautiful and left it at that to not appear as desperate as I thought I was playing it cool and letting her know I do have an attraction. Hard to tell a womans age these days with all the wrinkle creams available and I don't say it in disrespect either.

Anyway, I am still at the conclusion as to why she went cold and this might be a couple of things. One my eye condition to those who don't know me or my friendly personality like friends and family and other lady friends I come across very intiminatinig simply because of my focus and my attempt to avoid double vision this condition can't be corrected with glasses and it really can't be corrected with surgery but only limited. Now if your a true DJ go look yourself in the mirror close one eye completely now stay that way and go talk with the beautiful blonde babe over there and really make good conversation like that looking her in the eyes while smiling. Now while you are looking her in the eyes you happened to open your closed eye a bit and that eye is heading south. Don't f*cking tell me regardless of how much experiences you have had with all the women that this condition won't freak them out or even become disgusted to be in your presents. I dress well and have the best hair style a man can have and am fit with no pot belly.

This site can talk all it wants about being the confident DJ and liking yourself in your own skin because if your not women will detected this wuss behaviour you call it here no sh*t? Biggest lie ever told a confident man such as myself who has developed this eye condition only recently it just don't work that way for I am living this f*cking nightmare ever dam day of my life.

This was also my reluctance in approaching her those days she was giving me the obvious strong eye contact as the looks she was giving wasn't your regular friendly customer service looks or smiles I simply assumed she might be thinking I was winking at her the times I might have looked her way and when I came here I earlier found encourgement from a few that maybe this lady is really into me and there are actually hot babes out there who don't give a sh*t how a mans eyes look, yeah right.

Further using the word creeped out is what I need to hear lets go a step further and say she might think I'm f*cking retarded looking too. This has been my concerns from the beginning when this eye thing started as to just forget about approaching women all together as it seems they are only after perfections in looks. No amount of confidence is going to help this condition but I just might start wearing a eye patch or dark sunglasses and make dam sure I don't look a womans way as I don't want her to mistake me for a wicked Parate or a guy trying to be f*ucking cool and disgust them like that.

So now I read another poster accuses me of being a stalker I really needed to hear that conclusion as well. I'll go back in there with my police officers and detective friends the next time and maybe she can have my friends arrest my ass that would be priceless.

Thanks a lot I will be out of your hair now I have apparently disgusted the one life line I thought would help me with this issue instead I get a tight fist pointed my way.

LoneSilver

 

[Golden Arms]

LoneSilver -

I just did a search on your posts and nearly all of them are about this Wal-Mart chick. Honestly, the only reason you are obsessing with her is cause right now she is the only thing on your plate, isn't it ? Really, it's time to move on

How about you go out and introduce yourself to some other women ? About your eye condition - wearing sunglasses may not be a bad idea. An eye patch may actually look - pretty cool - pirate style !

Come on now, I am sure there are thousands of ladies outside your local Wal-Mart that are dying to meet a silver-haired physically fit mature man such as yourself.

Best of luck !

 

[GirlCrazy]

You seem to be spending more time analysing your actions than you do actually taking action.

Don't get caught in the "analysis paralysis" trap. You got rejected, so get back up on the horse and try again!

When you get rejected (wal-mart lady counts as a rejection), don't dwell on it. Tell yourself "at least I had the balls to try", which is progress, and progress is a good thing.

Take any area of your life: women, career, fitness, etc., and make daily progress in that area (I'm getting old so the treadmill is my new best friend). Enough days / months / years of continual progress, and you will be a success, period.