Follow up on approach

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Don Juan

Aug 14, 2018

This girl still remembers me from our first relationship. She's stayed at the same job for over 20 years. I talked to her and instantly she recognized me. We both married at some point. Not spinning plates... Haha. Fun Once everything settles down I plan on buying out the bar the right way. Comments are if you try this at home know how to negotiate. @2028 Going in with a positive idea still works. I normally greet with a hand shake. If I make it easily will be able to be on vine and accomplish this. If not vimeo is still a good platform. Daygame is still alive. TTYL. P.s.-Uber can work I recommend a limo service.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.