Belmar2009
Don Juan
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If you are an attractive male (a 6.5 or higher) try not to base your value to women based on what you look like.
I know it is hard not to do, since we do THE SAME to women.
If you are a physically attractive male, try to focus more on your personality, your goals, your accomplishments and being aggressive.
Focusing how physically attractive you are for your sense of self-worth makes you think like a woman.
It will make you passive in your thinking and make you think too much.
In example......
Well, I don't need to have an aggressive personality or I don't need to be outgoing since I am good looking. Woman will come to me! WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!
We all know this is true since we all know (or are one) good-looking men who struggle to attract women and men who are very mediocre looking have success with attractive women ALL THE TIME.
For example, I was at the gym today lifting. I saw a guy who was about 5'9", very average looking face (big nose) and a very average body talking to two hotties.
My point, mediocre and ugly looking men DON'T let their lack of physical looks affect their confidence. They focus on their personalities, achievements, etc.
If you are good looking, you DO have an advantage but try to FORGET you are good looking and don't get your source of confidence from your looks.
I know it is hard not to do, since we do THE SAME to women.
If you are a physically attractive male, try to focus more on your personality, your goals, your accomplishments and being aggressive.
Focusing how physically attractive you are for your sense of self-worth makes you think like a woman.
It will make you passive in your thinking and make you think too much.
In example......
Well, I don't need to have an aggressive personality or I don't need to be outgoing since I am good looking. Woman will come to me! WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!
We all know this is true since we all know (or are one) good-looking men who struggle to attract women and men who are very mediocre looking have success with attractive women ALL THE TIME.
For example, I was at the gym today lifting. I saw a guy who was about 5'9", very average looking face (big nose) and a very average body talking to two hotties.
My point, mediocre and ugly looking men DON'T let their lack of physical looks affect their confidence. They focus on their personalities, achievements, etc.
If you are good looking, you DO have an advantage but try to FORGET you are good looking and don't get your source of confidence from your looks.
