"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Focusing on my project.

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I'm spending the next two months focusing on my current project. This project, if successful will allow me to leave my current entry level job and push my small company from a side business to a full time endevor. I've hired my first sales rep and I'm interviewing my second tomorrow. Sales reps remind me of women (which they are). Firstly they are attracted to me by my style and what I can offer them ($$$). Next they are excited about the project, followed by them wanting to know entirely too much about the inner workings of my operation. It's my job to keep them on task, motivated and satisfied.

I've worked with enough sales reps to know the wrong ones can be gossipy little bytches. Never tell them more than they need to know. Hell, I've learned a lot about my competitors by befriending their sales reps.

I also keep my hand. They work for me, not the other way around. A friend of mine told me that with reps you always have to have the upper hand, they have to seek your approval and you have to be insanely confident and never show weakness. Listen to their input but make all of your decisions yourself and never let them force you into acting as they are always operating from their own self interest. Sound familiar?

It's going to be a busy few months ahead. See you guys around.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the best thing i ever did for my game was be an entrepreneur. you see things in people that most people never get the chance to see, true primal human nature. then you can apply that to game and other life situations and circumstances. alot of your posts are business related like mine. people that haven't experienced it can't get it
 

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It never fails. The minute I try to focus on my project I meet an attractive woman. I'm making strong headway on my biz. My sales pitch is getting more relaxed and conversational. I'm better at steering the conversation. Ive closed my first sale and hired my first sales person. I'm closing a contract that will bring me some side income as well. The last thing I need right now is a woman. But she is beautiful. 27, no kids, educated. But she's got that sassy black woman thing beneath the surface and she's an out of work lawyer. Those two things are huge red flags for me. She made a joke about getting divorced and taking half of a mans stuff, I made a joke about OJ being a role model for divorced men everywhere in response. She was not amused.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my dad has a line that i liked to remember whenever i had other non women **** to do

"there isn't a going out of business sale on ***** son, it will be there when you are ready"
 

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Well to be fair Warrior the best time to risk getting cleaned out is when times are tough and there's not much for her to clean out anyway.
 

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Warrior74 said:
It never fails. The minute I try to focus on my project I meet an attractive woman. I'm making strong headway on my biz. My sales pitch is getting more relaxed and conversational. I'm better at steering the conversation. Ive closed my first sale and hired my first sales person. I'm closing a contract that will bring me some side income as well. The last thing I need right now is a woman. But she is beautiful. 27, no kids, educated. But she's got that sassy black woman thing beneath the surface and she's an out of work lawyer. Those two things are huge red flags for me. She made a joke about getting divorced and taking half of a mans stuff, I made a joke about OJ being a role model for divorced men everywhere in response. She was not amused.
HUGE red flags.

Run, brother. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
 

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No worries. I got her to give me some contacts for my business, after she gave them to me, I friendzoned her, told her I don't believe in marriage. That shut it right down. Added a "you're like a bratty little sister" for good measure. I'm playing the game to win. :box:
 
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