I think its more important have a focus in life than to own the very best of cloths. Ever since I started to focus heavily in school, I find I can make more "mistakes" with with women and still be successful. Pick some thing you really want for your self and go for it. If its in education make sure to pick a major you love and can feel passionate about. In my case its Organic Chem. Take the harder teachers work harder than every one else, when people see that your willing to work "hard" at some thing and still make it look effortless. You will have attraction. I'm a typical American guy, but in college I am seen as an alpha male because I education as a priority.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Focus On a Passion.
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