"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
FOB from Brazil chick
- Thread starter scoopshank
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
scoopshank
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2015
- Messages
- 51
- Reaction score
- 1
Why do I get the feeling I bang way more chicks than this guy? :crackup:Syrio said:
scoopshank
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2015
- Messages
- 51
- Reaction score
- 1
Her: how's ur day
6hrs later Me: Been good, really busy
8mins later Her: what do we do next week?
14mins later Me: Dinner and a Movie?
4mins later Her: Sounds good
I will wait until Monday night to message her again, if I don't hear from her first. Probably getting back with my ex but at this point keeping no expectations to be safe. Persuing many options and not tying myself down at this time.
scoopshank
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2015
- Messages
- 51
- Reaction score
- 1
True, mostly for this thread and advice. Details make a difference in many cases.Yewki said:
She learns her schedule today so I will make contact with her again later. I'll let you guys know how that goes. Not getting my hopes up or anything lol.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.