"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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F'n Annoyed with timing out.

felony

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Ok, is there an option somewhere to extend my logged in time? Its so annoying everytime i go to type a reply more than 2 paragrahs long that i will have to sign in again at the end of the post before i can submit.

Whats more annoying is some **** i have to go through to get back to my post, in which if i don't copy the whole i lot i can potentially lose and on so many occassions i'm givin some gay option where i haven't specified the forum i wish to post in and my only option is to press "back" to "sign in again" and get no where or "contact the webmaster".

I will prolly have to go through that whole process again now cos i've been typing for just over 3 mins!

Am i the only person with this problem? And the same thing often happens if i'm scanning the forums.. i want to reply to something, but i've timed out and no longer logged in.

Help plz. and if there isn't an option to extend logged in time- than can someone do something about it plz thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does your browser support cookies?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not type it into NOTEPAD first and then copy and paste it into your message?
 

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Eternal- Yes my browser supports cookies.

Diablo- I usually log on to SS through 2 different computers and suffer identical symptoms both computers are very unalike. One is a p4, 2.8ghz, 1g RAM etc.. pretty much top of the line 2 months ago. In contrast my other comp is a 350mhz, 92ish MB ram. Both run winxp and the latest version of IE.

Francisco- I haven't used notepad but i have taken to MSword a number of times. Still, i'd rather not have to use an additional program etc. And it still doesn't overcome my timing out issue. Do you suffer this problem too francisco? Or just thinking of solutions?

Eteranl & Diablo- given your responses i'm assuming this is a problem at my end and not SS. Is this so? There is no option to length "logged in time" or this isn't just a restraint of the current abilities of the forum.


Thanks for your help thus far.

f.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I had in the past but it was when I was writing a pretty long diatribe. Now when I'm on a rant that isn't completely formulated, I edit it in another program before posting.

Could it be a common program on both computers that is related to Internet security?
 

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At the top click: User CP - Edit Options

Select "yes" for the cookie options (2 & 3). Should solve your problem.
 
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