"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flying solo...

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In my college there is a big center that most of the students go and sit in when they don't have class. It is highly populated with hot women. I enjoy going through there (but I don't stop and talk) in between classes.

Reason I dont study there is because at the point and time that I go thrue, their is no one that I know. So, I'm thinking about just going and sitting by myself and watch and make my moves without "trying" to look desperate and making all the "jocks" be my friends.

But the question is, will that look bad on my part, sitting by myself. I know I"ll eventually make some friends and stuff while I"m there becasue used to, well, up to this point I would go and sit in the back where there is nobody around.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rata Blanca

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Take one of your female friends there (the hotter the better)...make a plan or something, like after some mins she goes to the bathroom and you start djing any girls near, or when you are both leaving tell her, wait a sec and star djing.
(a good tip is to make good eye contact to the girls there when you are with your friend, even if you are both talking, that way you'll know with who you should start..)
 
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Nothing wrong with sitting by yourself, as long as you project "confortable" and "confident" while you do it. Don't just sit in a corner, hunched over yuor food, peering out at people. Sit in the middle of the room, lean back on your chair, smile at a thought, and make good eyecontact.

Nothing wrong with being a free spirit. Plus, being on your own sets you apart from other people, and makes you more accessible. There are no semantic barriers between your mark and you, so she is free to approach. If you're making good eyecontact, beckon her over to sit with you.

Done and done :) Rata Blanca's idea is good as well, because it establishes your standards.

Syn.
 
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cool sig, syn...

"But the question is, will that look bad on my part, sitting by myself."

Why the hell are you asking... we're just as strange as the other complete strangers who you AREN'T asking... as if moving with the pack was always cool... rambo didn't make an inspirational series because of nothing...

concept concept concept.
 
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