fluff to seduction

[herbatnik]

how do you guys transition from fluff to seduction?
i was always directing the conversation towards subjects that *i thought* will get her emotional thinking/talking.

my wing has another view on this:
he fluffs, every now & then he throws in a "branch topic", that might be interesting to him. if she doesn't hook, he goes back to fluff. when she doesn't get any of his "branch hooks" (BH) it's time to next her because it's not going to go anywhere with her (either she's not interested or dumb or who cares what else).

in other words:

my method was to drift from subject to subject but the transitions weren't smooth so i didn't have that sense of connection going (breaking rapport a bit).

my wing is unbelievably smooth. instead of jumping from subject to subject to something interesting to him, he leaves BH but goes back to previous subject. this way SHE makes the transition & convo goes much smoother from her perspective. rapport & connection goes faster.

any views/comments on this?

 

[Skel]

I hope that answered your question :crackup:

 

[locarius]

What you are talking about is what Mystery calls 'conversational threads'. Basicly, he tries to have 5 conversations open. He will move on to a new topic before closing the previous topic, and then at a critical moment wrap all the conversational threads together to make a strong point. This is pretty advanced stuff, and quite hard to do unless you run the same game on every girl, or have a large 'bag-o-routines to draw from.