flows101
Don Juan
Been interacting with girls a hell of a lot behind the bar and during the day lately and there’s some things IV started to pick on that I never noticed before, so thought id start up a thread were I can post all my random thoughts & ideas on PU.
Helping chicks out during the pick up
If you’re PU a girl and she feels as if you’re too good for her, or see’s you as having way too MUCH value, you almost have to literally HELP them not **** up the interaction. You almost have to GUIDE them though and if they make a “mistake” you have to help them correct it.
Example from Thursday night I met HB: ginger while working behind the bar. Ran my **** & spat my game, but she kept making “mistakes” like saying stupid **** she wouldn’t normally say if she didn’t view me as having higher value, kept saying “sorry” as well, so I had to almost help her, it was like she was to in her own head.
Asked her for her number she says she doesn’t know (weather to give it to me or not), so I tell her straight “GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER” and she did, had a huge SMILE after giving me.
I guess this is to do with the hole leading thing to, but it’s almost like these kind of girls JUST DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO when around a guy they find EXTREMELY attractive so if you don’t help them they’ll just stumble through the interaction and trip over there own feet.
(Note to new guys: by attractive I do NOT mean PHYSICAL APPEARANCE, more that persons VIBE which is all things SUBCOMMUNICATED)
Current thoughts on approach anxiety
A lot has been said on how to get rid of AA, my thoughts on this at the moment is that you have to REALLY have to want to get laid on a DEEP level, you have to think about it, dream about, ****ing imagine your self PU girls all the time.
Also you MUST have so many hobbies you LOVE doing SOOO much that you are NEVER bored and find it hard to put GIRLS before them. Half the time you have to feel you are FORCED to work women AROUND your hobbies.
This is like a ****ing double bind tho, but is what has been working for me VERY well.
DLV as AMOG tactic
Went in to this next player’s set this weekend to try & blow him out (all women are fair game ) anyway when I asked him who he was he started DLV saying “am just some ******* don’t worry bout me, am a nobody. These girls don’t want me here anyway so am goner go (half back turn)” but he did it in a very SARCASTIC half/sad tone, the girls were all over him, comforting him & **** haha.
I counter reacted by saying I knew how he felt, that I use to be in the same bout blah blah (in a SARCASTIC half/sad tone) he ended up bringing me into the set after that
Anyway this got me thinking, my be DLV is a grate way to AMOG unwanted visitors out of your set, will have to experiment with this more.
Helping chicks out during the pick up
If you’re PU a girl and she feels as if you’re too good for her, or see’s you as having way too MUCH value, you almost have to literally HELP them not **** up the interaction. You almost have to GUIDE them though and if they make a “mistake” you have to help them correct it.
Example from Thursday night I met HB: ginger while working behind the bar. Ran my **** & spat my game, but she kept making “mistakes” like saying stupid **** she wouldn’t normally say if she didn’t view me as having higher value, kept saying “sorry” as well, so I had to almost help her, it was like she was to in her own head.
Asked her for her number she says she doesn’t know (weather to give it to me or not), so I tell her straight “GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER” and she did, had a huge SMILE after giving me.
I guess this is to do with the hole leading thing to, but it’s almost like these kind of girls JUST DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO when around a guy they find EXTREMELY attractive so if you don’t help them they’ll just stumble through the interaction and trip over there own feet.
(Note to new guys: by attractive I do NOT mean PHYSICAL APPEARANCE, more that persons VIBE which is all things SUBCOMMUNICATED)
Current thoughts on approach anxiety
A lot has been said on how to get rid of AA, my thoughts on this at the moment is that you have to REALLY have to want to get laid on a DEEP level, you have to think about it, dream about, ****ing imagine your self PU girls all the time.
Also you MUST have so many hobbies you LOVE doing SOOO much that you are NEVER bored and find it hard to put GIRLS before them. Half the time you have to feel you are FORCED to work women AROUND your hobbies.
This is like a ****ing double bind tho, but is what has been working for me VERY well.
DLV as AMOG tactic
Went in to this next player’s set this weekend to try & blow him out (all women are fair game ) anyway when I asked him who he was he started DLV saying “am just some ******* don’t worry bout me, am a nobody. These girls don’t want me here anyway so am goner go (half back turn)” but he did it in a very SARCASTIC half/sad tone, the girls were all over him, comforting him & **** haha.
I counter reacted by saying I knew how he felt, that I use to be in the same bout blah blah (in a SARCASTIC half/sad tone) he ended up bringing me into the set after that
Anyway this got me thinking, my be DLV is a grate way to AMOG unwanted visitors out of your set, will have to experiment with this more.