justjosh47
Don Juan
Okay so the girl I was seeing last semester is in London right now studying abroad, would it be a good move to send her flowers for Valentines Day? I was thinking something else besides roses. Any ideas?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Flowers...Valentines Day and England
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
roses mean romance
carnations means friends
tulips are always a nice change and cheaper too.
carnations means friends
tulips are always a nice change and cheaper too.
DJinTraining06
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penkitten said:
Been dating a girl a month and a half. We see each other 3 times a week and got pretty close fast.
For V-day - one rose, or a dozen? And delivered to the house by 1-800-flowers? or given in person? Should i get a piece of jewerly? Tickets to a show? I'm all out of ideas, cant think of anythign good.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
a month and half is too soon for jewerly and things like that.
schedule a date
pick her up with one single red rose, and tell her that you just had to show this rose how beautiful your lady is.
things like that are sweet and earn you points.
take her somewhere.
schedule a date
pick her up with one single red rose, and tell her that you just had to show this rose how beautiful your lady is.
things like that are sweet and earn you points.
take her somewhere.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJinTraining06
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penkitten said:
yea but most people get some kid of gift too, and im sure shes gonna have 1 for me, i cant just give her a rose can i?
I wish i knew how much she was spending.
Id love to do the one rose, and big bear or box of chocolates thing. But my fear is, she is gonna havesome nice thing for me.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it seems too soon to me to spend a ton of money on one day.
however i never did like valentines day.
so maybe its best that i dont give you advise on this one.
my favorite gift on valentines to give is homemade brownies.
however i never did like valentines day.
so maybe its best that i dont give you advise on this one.
my favorite gift on valentines to give is homemade brownies.
DJinTraining06
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also, i haven't mentioned v-day to her yet. By me every restaurant is booked on v-day, no matter where u go. So i gotta make reservations pretty soon, when should i bring it up. Also should i ask her where she wants to go, or just take her somewhere? I was thinking of maybe asking, just to be nice, and then having a place in mind (cuz i know shes gunna say "i dunno" adn wants me to pick)penkitten said:
I know a great mexican place that is big for v-day, they have mariachi bands at the tables. Is that a good idea? Mexican food is kinda hard on the stomache, not sure if its the best place. Whatya think?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
now you see, i was never one of those chickie chicks that wanted a candlelight dinner of steak and soufles and chocolate mousse.DJinTraining06 said:
i dig mexican food and i think their bands at their places are sweet.
what about something italian? thats nice too.