"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Florida is finished! Read if you considering moving to FL.

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I've spend my late teens and twenties in Florida and it was once a wonderful place. Affordable. Clean. Safe. It was a perfect paradise.

Nowadays we have King Tides. It's high tidal water which floods the streets. You see, since 2000s, sea level rose by 6 inches. Sea level is predicted to rise another4 to 8 inches in the next 10 years. In addition, gulf stream has slowed down, which naturally removes less water, and causes more water to hit Florida, sea level is naturally higher because of gulf stream.

Florida is going under water. Streets are flooding. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=florida+king+tide

No. From my late teens and twenties in Florida I do not recall we had something called "King Tides". If there was king tides, the water was just higher in the bay and canals. Streets were not flooded.

Another thing is tiny hats. Florida is tiny hat world, it's similar to New York. Police protect tiny hats. There used to be enforcement of speed and traffic back in the day, as I remember, and I remember it well, I had more than 10 points on my license. Now, all police are doing is protecting tiny hat communities. There is no enforcement on the streets.

This leads us to the next part. Because tiny hats run everything, price of living is expensive. Property is unobtanium. Taxes are through the roof and then some. People are being priced the hell out of their properties. There is a reason for that. The new thing is to buy properties, cheap, and the land and build condos, so people can rent. Presently you can rent yourself a unit, prices is around $2500.

Homelessness exits. People are living on the streets and out of their cars. It is not as pronounced as in California. It's low key. If you get around during the day you won't even see much homeless. Only night brings you the images of homeless, prostitution and drug use.

Cleanliness also comes to mind. I remember from you youth Florida was much cleaner. Streets were literally cleaner. Roads were much better, now it's potholes all over.

Then, there is also now too much people in Florida. Literally, overcrowding.

So if you are considering moving to Florida. Reconsider. It is not a good place to move to.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So if you are considering moving to Florida. Reconsider. It is not a good place to move to.
I suppose Florida sucks if you're an average person with an average salary.

But I'll bet the dudes at the top of the food chain clean up in Florida.

The tougher the competition, the sweeter the prize.
 

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Florida is like 3 or 4 states, depending on where you live. It goes from Lower Alabama, to touristville, to Latin America. I lived in Tampa, which had all three, depending on the neighborhood.
 

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West coast is long dead. Think of west coast as New Orleans. It's like that now. Over populated. Traffic jammed. Criminal. Run down roads and infrastructure. Ghetto.

Similar story with Orlando.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm in Florida crowded yes but take any day over nebraska Jersey or North Dakota as well California .
 
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