Flirts a lot, but doesn't return calls?

[Scoundrel]

I used to know an attractive young lady that whenever she was around she'd follow me almost like a puppy. She'd make an effort to sit with me, touch me, invite me to her parties, buy my drinks whenshe saw me out, but would NEVER take or return my phone calls. This went on for over a year! I never had sex with her, but I know I could have if I’d wanted (she didn't shave her pits and it grossed me out).

I’m hoping some of you may enlighten me as to what she may have been feeling/thinking.

 

[djSlvt]

Women do that to feel beautiful. They get a guy going on them, and then endulge in his attention, but that's all they want - some guy going crazy over them. That's ego strocking.


You could not have had sex with her. Because you've told her that you're average, clingy, a friend.


:wave:



She does this to you, and you call her repetedly.


She does this to you, and have no one else to call but her, even though she does this to you - you are clingy, average, and not some one she'd have sex with. Because she has choices, and you are just a boy she gets her ego strocked by. A boy toy.


Thus, you went one waiving at her, telling that you're just a friend, or less. All the while, you've assumed that she's into you, and that kept you going. :kick:




Generally, women do not make effort to sleep with a guy. What she was doing with you is putting effort into you. Generally, women will make an effort like she did to get attention from a guy. At that point you should test her intentions.

Almost always, men approach women, not the other way around. She might be madly in love with you, but chances of her approaching you with it, are almost none.


If she does approach, I assume she's an attention wh0re. I test. Usually, they see that I'm a wrong guy for attention wh0ring, and want to have sex with me. But if you haven't developed these qualities yet, if she fails test, don't hang around. She's just a girl, and there are millions of girls like her or better.

 

[Scoundrel]

ROFL Dude! You have no clue at all do you.

If this is the best insight this place has to offer... (rolls eyes)

 

[Ratisson]

lol, nice reply djslvt. The first part of ur reply was good but the second half i couldnt understand.

Okay back to the question. This girl is just a flirt. Djslvt is right, no u couldnt have banged her if u wanted to. she never liked u to begin with. This girl may flirt with u and sh1t when ur around her, but then she doesnt return ur call. I smell low interest. sorry bud, i know its not what u want to hear.

If she had interest she would answer/return ur call, she would be dying to hear from u, she would be waiting by the phone all day waiting for it to ring. She';s just stroking ur ego man. next.

 

[rrrrr]

djslvt basically summarized what heppened. Live n' learn.

 

[Scoundrel]

I'm not new at this. I'm 45 years old and I've had sex with more than 150 women. I've got more game than Parker Brothers. I know when a chick wants me.

Girls that PAY for MY drinks are NOT teasing me. As a matter of fact, I was teasing her.

And women WILL make an effort to sleep with a man if he knows what to play her.

 

[baurman]

so you have a lady who follows you, sits with you, touches you, buys you drinks, but you've never fvcked her???? SHE'S NOT INTERESTED IN YOU! If she was, she would return your phone calls. Who cares if she buys you a drink? She probably thinks of you as a friend. While you wait at your phone for her to call, she's banging a dude that she is sexually attracted too.

 

[Scoundrel]

Does a girl GRAB YOUR BALLS when she just wants to be friends? Yes, she did this to me (and she's not the first). I wasn't interested in her!

The more I read in this thread, the more I'm thinking you guy aren't into getting laid, but just want to beat each other up with you c**ks.

Go figure. (shrugs)