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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

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So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Flirting with MILFS??

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Hey there guys. Just wondering if anybody has any tips for flirting and just generally creating attraction with these older women.

Do y'all game them exactly like a chick your age, or is a change of strategy in order?

I'm pretty good at picking up girls around my age (Im 21), but recently when im out i just notice these really hot ass milfs and im not really sure how to go about gaming them after the initial approach.

I need some milf pvssy =P help me out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nothing changes. It get easier the older the woman gets...
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Nothing changes. It get easier the older the woman gets...
Though the process is different, there is some information that could help the process along with older women. Here's a thread that touches on it.

20's meeting 30's-40's at bars...
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Nothing changes. It get easier the older the woman gets...
I back that. Lol funny story... I couldn't hook up with this girl throwing this New Years party a few years back so I fawked her 38 year old mom, lol. The magic of alcohol.

Just stay as confident and the best thing that always works for me is ****y/funny.

When I'm as mature as you I hope I look half that attractive.

They eat the comments up!
 

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Older women are better at reading men, what might work on a 21 yr old might look stupid to an older women, so in my opinion, you have to be 100% on top fo your game to get older women if your young, unless, they see you as just a piece of a** and just want to f*** you and dump your young inmature a**.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the oler they are the younger u treat them, then talk about the kids, sparingly, then get her interests, like any othe woman.
 

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i love milfs. i have f closed a few. one time i was f*cking my friends neighbor and her husband came over, didnt even knock on the door. he was like "wheres kim, which room is she in?" my friend said she wasnt there and it was inapropriat for him to just walk in the house. if he would have checked the rooms he would have found his bent over gettin it by a 20 year old. she was in her mid 30s and had 2 kids. i think older girls are easier. i should make a porno called that. its fun to bone milfs but be carefull with the maried ones. let them know right from the begining your just lookin for some fun and nothing else. i had to be an ******* to this girl in order for her to leave me alone. she wanted to leave her husband. well good milf hunting.
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
the oler they are the younger u treat them, then talk about the kids, sparingly, then get her interests, like any othe woman.
Why would you talk about the kids, even sparingly? That's one of the main things that will have her mind focused on her age when she is talking to you. Not good.... :down:
 

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good advice i suppose, thanks

However, I'm still not convinced that older women are easier than ones closer to your age. I mean won't a lot of the MILFS just see a low 20s guy as innappropriate and brush you off? Or does that not happen nearly as much as im thinking it does.

And haha i really don't give a s-hit if they just fvck me and dump me ... seriously don't want any relationship more serious than f buddies with a woman whos 15 years older than i am anyway.

edit: actually i have plans with a 41 year old milf, who I've been exchanging emails with because she lives in the same town, whos agreed to meet up to shag in a few days... but im not gonna chalk it up to my milf game... because she goes for guys my age all the damn time anyway
 

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i think that muscles + looks are more important with an attack on milfs who just want to f*ck then they are on younger girls who just want to f*ck. but others may say otherwise?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Mintyfresh
good advice i suppose, thanks

However, I'm still not convinced that older women are easier than ones closer to your age. I mean won't a lot of the MILFS just see a low 20s guy as innappropriate and brush you off? Or does that not happen nearly as much as im thinking it does.
It's not necessarily easier; older women tend to have given up the game playing and sh1t testing that the teenie boppers usually do. They are usually straight up about what they want, no need to guess. You can use that information to your advantage so it may seem easier if you know how to display that you understand them and can give them what they want (within reason).

MILFs won't give you the time of day if you come across like every other 20 year old. That's not to say that you need to come across like an old fart like me though. You just need to show them that you are unique and that they should get to know you.
 

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Well 40 is the female sexual peak (as is 19 the male sexual peak). So it's no wonder they cut through all the bull****. They just want to get LAID!
 

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30 is the female sexual peak - not 40.

I can't stand dating girls my age - they're immature and don't look developed enough. I'm 19 and tend to go for 20+.
It's easy because even most guys in their 20's can't hold up a convo. So if you can do that and you're well educated it's actually easier to pick up older women because they're more mature and don't think they're hot shyt.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Why would you talk about the kids, even sparingly? That's one of the main things that will have her mind focused on her age when she is talking to you. Not good.... :down:
Like shes gonna forget about her kids? its a subject that can be easily talked about.
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
30 is the female sexual peak - not 40.

I can't stand dating girls my age - they're immature and don't look developed enough. I'm 19 and tend to go for 20+.
It's easy because even most guys in their 20's can't hold up a convo. So if you can do that and you're well educated it's actually easier to pick up older women because they're more mature and don't think they're hot shyt.
ya at 40 some women that mature quickly can be having their menopause....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Well 40 is the female sexual peak (as is 19 the male sexual peak). So it's no wonder they cut through all the bull****. They just want to get LAID!
They just want to get laid, WELL! ;)
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
Like shes gonna forget about her kids? its a subject that can be easily talked about.
You can talk easily talk about the weather too. :rolleyes: You don't successfully pick up many older women, do you?
 
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