"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dj_jazzybrad

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So I'm a senior (grade 12) and yesterday I was just absent-mindedly flirting with some girls in my PE class (I'm in an all-girls aerobics PE class which is pretty much fVcking awesome, accidentally got put into it but i didnt complain. anyhow a story for another day). They were both HB8.5's, and looked older than freshman. Not that much older, but older. And like I said, it was an absent-minded thing. I dont even remember what I did. Later, one of my good friends who's in that class (has a bf, im not interested in her) came up and got on my case for flirting with freshman, telling me how creepy it was. I'm not trying to get in their pants, I didn't even know they were freshmen. I'm interested in girls my own grade. I didn't feel like I had to justify myself to her so I said i wasn't going to argue about it, but now I'm kinda second guessing myself. I mean, to me, it's just fun, harmless flirting. Do you guys see it differently? I understand how it would be creepy if I was dating a freshman or if i did stuff with one, but come on, I can get girls my own grade, and we were just flirting. Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DarkShade

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I may be a few years out of high school but all girls are pretty much fair game as long as you aren't 18. I've had friends who were get on my case for checking out youngins (over 18 but looked very young), I told them to back off and stop with the jealousy. Women...
 

Avn_0903

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lol I think she's just jealous because u paid attention to some girls other than her. Even ur good female friends can get jealous just because u r interested in some other girls.
 

Kevin Cass

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i have an experience to share with you guys, right now im a senior at my highschool and me and a group of friends were hanging out with a couple of girls and one of the girls thought of playing spin the bottle, so basically i started making out with one of the cute girls, she was a freshman though. i didnt really care becuase were all in highschool. anyways a friend of mine found out and he started getting all in my face about how its wrong, how they are just little girls, and all this other crap. 1 month later i found out that he went down to the park and started making out with this freshman girl and started to finger her. all of the guys that were playing spin the bottle that day went upto him and we SHUT HIM DOWN. called him hypocrite and whatever else.

dont let other people ruin your fun, they are just jealous
 

Jokerlsk

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Well, my sister is a freshman, and some senior guy wanted to "hang out" with her one day, so I pretty much had to shut him down. The guy is pathetic. Why can't he hit on someone his own age? I'm a sophomore, and he was afraid of me. LMAO. What an AFC. No offense because you were only flirting, but a senior that wants to go out with a freshman is pathetic. They should be going after the girls their own age, or atleast the juniors.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DarkShade

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Maybe there's slim pickins with senior girls, God knows they are picky and probably only go after the college guys.
 

coolf1r3

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DarkShade said:
Maybe there's slim pickins with senior girls, God knows they are picky and probably only go after the college guys.
Or too fvcking full of themselves to be bothered with.:cuss:
 

S.Y.L

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Im jealous of the All Girls PE class. Theres 3 girls in my PE class, and 2 of em are older, and only one of those is single, and the other girl, her dad went out with my mom.
 
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