Flirting through text messages, the rules?

[spiegel549]

I am great with flirting, building up kino, and keeping conversations light and fun with a dash of that "sexual vibe" IN PERSON.

As you all already know the social media era is in full swing. I am HORRIBLE at flirting via text message. The girls that I seem to always take on dates and "have fun" with are 18-24 and they live for texting.

Are there REALLY rules with texting? Such as how often to respond back. What NOT to say and what NOT to use such as emotion icons etc. I feel like in person I am smooth, calm, and cool to be around, but read my text convo's with girls you would think I was a18 year old girl sending the messages LOL....

How do you keep the sexual vibe, interest level, have her wanting more level HIGH with texting?

I just wanna be damn good with texting leaving them texting ME, not the other way around.

Opinions, guidance, tips, please! THANKS!

 

[Eph]

I think you should use emoticons when texting. Since its hard to understand what someone means when texting, emoticons are good for drawing a line between "I'm joking" and "I'm serious".

To keep her on a high, don't text too often or frequently. The only real rule I try to follow is using it only to set up dates.

 

[muhnkee]

Best rule? Don't.

Use text for logistics. If she wants play, she has to show up in person.