"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flirting through text messages, the rules?

spiegel549

spiegel549

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I am great with flirting, building up kino, and keeping conversations light and fun with a dash of that "sexual vibe" IN PERSON.

As you all already know the social media era is in full swing. I am HORRIBLE at flirting via text message. The girls that I seem to always take on dates and "have fun" with are 18-24 and they live for texting.

Are there REALLY rules with texting? Such as how often to respond back. What NOT to say and what NOT to use such as emotion icons etc. I feel like in person I am smooth, calm, and cool to be around, but read my text convo's with girls you would think I was a18 year old girl sending the messages LOL....

How do you keep the sexual vibe, interest level, have her wanting more level HIGH with texting?

I just wanna be damn good with texting leaving them texting ME, not the other way around.

Opinions, guidance, tips, please! THANKS!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think you should use emoticons when texting. Since its hard to understand what someone means when texting, emoticons are good for drawing a line between "I'm joking" and "I'm serious".

To keep her on a high, don't text too often or frequently. The only real rule I try to follow is using it only to set up dates.
 
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Best rule? Don't.

Use text for logistics. If she wants play, she has to show up in person.
 
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