"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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flirting comebacks

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Well,i just had a convo on messenger with a girl im interested in.

have been playing the 'scarce' on messenger angle,and has worked wonders any of you guys that try talk to a girl interest on msn everyday are just shooting your selves in the foot without knowing it,i used to do that every day,suddenly it was always me starting the convo's she seemed bored with me,i stopped getting invited out never heard from her,so what i did was avoided msn for 5 days (she comes on every day),then on the 5th day she called me up to hang out,and we did. so i avoided msn another few days,and have been talking to her for half an hour max on messenger,different times for the last few days,and has worked wonders she starts convo's 1st,flirts with me,and invited me to a party,all in less then a week.its gotten that good ive moved off that and have tried improving my game,ive got the 'value' back in me in her eyes......easier then i wouldve ever thought.

one question. we had a little bit of a word game on msn flirting,and i played into it,but whenever i flirt back she backs down and leaves me hangin (this is on yahoo messenger), then she had to go.

but just before she left on messenger,she sent me a comment on myspace saying "convince me you are the sex" ... what does she mean? anyone think of a good comeback?.......its so hard to time the 'perfect' sexual flirting.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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say something like "i dont need to convince you, i know im the sex!" or "convince?... its a known fact. look in the dictionary for the word sex and you'll see a picture of me"
 

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message her this "you convince me you are the sex, and then ill just show you"

its a chess game mane; you gotta get it in her head before you ever get it in her pants; make her qualify herself to you not the other way around.
 

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one more thing, watch out for the broads online - you never know how old the pics they have up are - i just had conversation with a girl pick up online that i used to go to highschool with - we were on the swim team together; i ended up blowing her off but then saw her at the bar when i was with some friends and lets just say she didn't have a swimmers body anymore.

so watch out online, they'll get ya.
 
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