"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flirting and why it's good

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The best advice I've heard for becoming a DJ:

FLIRT WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET, it doesn't matter is she's 14, 50, 84, married, single, pretty or ugly, or your best friend's mother.

This way, when you meet someone you are really interested in, you'll know what to do...

Everything requieres practice... And girls like guys who pays them some attention

(and I mean some casual remarks, not sending them flowers and chocolates)...

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Most guys wait till they fall deeply in love to start flirting with women... WRONG! That's the worst state of mind to flirt or do anything constructive...

You must be like a soldier, practicing 1000 times what to do on the battlefield, because when the real thing comes you'll be so shocked and scared that you'll have to act automatically.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes, flirting is good. I don't think most people wait until their in love to flirt. I don't think it's best to flirt straight off either with a hb. Mystery does it like this.

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get them intrested

then subtley flirting
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
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opener

get them intrested

then subtley flirting

OK, by flirting I mean making casual remarks and moving away, treating women as potencial romance candidates. Not calling her on the phone all the time...
 
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