"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Flirting Aids - NAMES.

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I stumbled across this interesting website called behindthename.com, and I was thinking, this is cool. If I have nothing better to do, I could memorise the meaning of some common names, or at least the names of people that I'm going to date and see.

As I'm convo-phobic, anything is helpful to break the ice, look educated and sophisticated, and I think that website could be a good flirting aid by giving yourself some fancy repatior. The only catch is, you have to know the other person's name, so you have to look at her name tag, or ask her. Then say, that's a cool name, I'm into studying names, do you know the meaning of your name? etc... and go on....

Why?

You could create a fantasy role-play. Each name has a meaning, and you could ascribe that meaning to a prospect to make her feel special or unique, and have fun with it. Seems like a cool flirting aid.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mr_elor - That's a great one, I'll have to use it.

I'm not sure it will work but it will be funny anyway. I'm at the point where i actually prefer goofing on girls more than pulling them.
 
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