"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flirting Aids - NAMES.

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I stumbled across this interesting website called behindthename.com, and I was thinking, this is cool. If I have nothing better to do, I could memorise the meaning of some common names, or at least the names of people that I'm going to date and see.

As I'm convo-phobic, anything is helpful to break the ice, look educated and sophisticated, and I think that website could be a good flirting aid by giving yourself some fancy repatior. The only catch is, you have to know the other person's name, so you have to look at her name tag, or ask her. Then say, that's a cool name, I'm into studying names, do you know the meaning of your name? etc... and go on....

Why?

You could create a fantasy role-play. Each name has a meaning, and you could ascribe that meaning to a prospect to make her feel special or unique, and have fun with it. Seems like a cool flirting aid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mr_elor - That's a great one, I'll have to use it.

I'm not sure it will work but it will be funny anyway. I'm at the point where i actually prefer goofing on girls more than pulling them.
 
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