"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Flirt or not???????

tatlongxxx

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i have two GF the cheater and other is? (i dont know) read the below story for my other GF.......

We been together for almost 1 year. but i have a bad situation with her also.

She is 24 and her brother is 23, they are so closed to each other. Sometimes her brother kiss her on cheek and lips like we do. Sometimes he hug her tight like also we do. changing her clothes in front of him. They are in the same room, sometimes at the same bed. There was an incident happened, her brother told me this in front of her sister.

here it goes!
While she was sleeping, her brother kiss her on her lips and totally she likes it and fuc*ng carried away. (its a torrrrrid kiss my men!). i dont want to believe what was happened next. I ask her about it, she said she's only dreaming of ex-boyfriend.



"IS THIS FLIRTING?"
what can u say about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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its a lie. he must have gotten that from that one episode of friends.
 

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ei guyzzzzz.....

this is not a lie, its true and it was happened before....
do u think i like to be treaten like an ******* or stupid person or depressed. i want ur help, an advice in which i can feel better... pls help me i dont know what to do.... am i overreacting..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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can u please listen to me first.... i'm not liar.....
i want answers pls help me....... if ur on my side what would you? maybe seek advice. what i'm trying to say is i'm feeling really really reallybad.... can u give me a break! understand my situation pls!
 

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?????

i'm not her brother..... i'm the one who is hurt here.... if ur thinking that its my sister, ur wrong. first, i dont have a sister.. second, i live by myself only... third, if i have a sister and done that, its worst fuc**ng thing that was happened to my life and i cannot live with it, my consience will kill me....

so pls help me????????
 

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Yeah.

Incest messes up the genetic pool.

--iMat
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It seems really simple...

DUMP HER!





Originally posted by tatlongxxx
"IS THIS FLIRTING?"
???? Are you thick ?
 
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