"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Flirt in Class...Next Step?

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There's a girl I like at my school who is a grade below me. We have one class together and we're in the same work group so we flirt with each other quite a bit. I occassionally run into her in the halls but otherwise in class is the only time I talk with her.

Since I've come to the conclusion she is interested, my question is: what is the next step toward a relationship? I feel like I've waited too long to do anything (stalled due to interest in another girl), but now is my chance.

I already have her email and facebook, but if I ask her for her number or invite her to go somewhere, then what exactly do I do AFTER that (and how would I make it not awkward)? I've never had a girlfriend who goes to my school, so this process of breaking away from the classroom chatting is somewhat new to me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would sugest some place other then the movies...
Unless your looking for a make-out session :confused: when you could be getting WAY ahead by doing other, much funner things

Check this out, an EXCELLENT thought to keep in mind with setting up dates is to do something ACTIVE. The blood rushing around gets your body and blood pumping, thus sending all kinds of endorphins and hormones to the brain. For you, testosterone, boosting you to your best female attracting state, you'll be having fun, and creating even more attraction.
Lazer Tag is good, you'll get a chance to hunt her down, and chase one another.

One really awesome thing I've come up with, is to take a class with her. What ever your into! Yoga, cooking, you could just go to the gym together! This is a great buffer date, as it doesn't look like a date, sound like a date, or feel like a date, but it grows the relationship like 10 dates!
This is a way to get a consistent "non-date" together.
The easiest way to have fun and get to know her better. Many chances to throw in kisses and winks

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