"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flipping the script by stealing her lines

Julius_Seizeher

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I've posted before about my contrarian ways and how I love to flip the script on girls and how much they love it when I do so.

Here are some ways I've had fun flippin da script:

"You just want me for my body" or "You just want to use me for your own pleasure"

"You just want to use me to make your girlfriends jealous"

"You think I'm just a sex god and a status symbol for you, but I have a brain too"

Use your imagination, and have fun with it. Destroy the skepticism a new girl will feel for you by throwing it in her face. But know the reason for doing it--it's a great way to have fun and cultivate comfort, while providing the intellectual stimulation and hamster spin that sets you apart.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That is gold.
 

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This can work great, as long as you come in confident and fun. A favorite of mine, especially at parties or bars is, "I'm tired girls who just want to get me drunk and hook up with me!"
 

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I've had excellent success early on with lines like:

"I'm glad we're getting to be such great friends"

"No matter what happens, I know we'll always be great friends"

Introducing her to other people as "this is my friend Mary"

Also stuff like "Ok, you can buy me a drink, but it doesn't mean you are getting lucky tonight. I'm not that kind of guy"

"Ok you can see my apartment, but only for a minute because I've got to get up early in the morning"

Pretty much anything they say to guys works well when used on them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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