"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'm pretty far in the friend zone with a girl I like, but I think it is still possible to get out of it and get with her.

Heres a short description of her:

-Mainly AFC
-Has some emotional problems
-Can be a hell of a PUA... like shockingly amazing
-Claims not to like conceited people
-Hates being told to change herself

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Well, it seems my attraction is more towards her than her towards me. I don't really know what to try, but shes pretty hard to get into.
Alot of my methods fail because they aren't refined enough, like take C+F which I have actually lost most of my skill in and now it doesn't work over half of the time.
You have to be careful when you're negging her because she'll get really mad at you so I usually don't neg her (but Idk maybe I should).

I am a man though, and I know she, as a woman, should be more attracted to me, not me to her.

What has happened to my skill and judgment...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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She is to strangers, but not really to me. By already knowing her this will be easier... but I need some ****ing improvement! No clues how to create that opposite attraction.
 
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