"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Flipping the Direction

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'm pretty far in the friend zone with a girl I like, but I think it is still possible to get out of it and get with her.

Heres a short description of her:

-Mainly AFC
-Has some emotional problems
-Can be a hell of a PUA... like shockingly amazing
-Claims not to like conceited people
-Hates being told to change herself

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Well, it seems my attraction is more towards her than her towards me. I don't really know what to try, but shes pretty hard to get into.
Alot of my methods fail because they aren't refined enough, like take C+F which I have actually lost most of my skill in and now it doesn't work over half of the time.
You have to be careful when you're negging her because she'll get really mad at you so I usually don't neg her (but Idk maybe I should).

I am a man though, and I know she, as a woman, should be more attracted to me, not me to her.

What has happened to my skill and judgment...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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She is to strangers, but not really to me. By already knowing her this will be easier... but I need some ****ing improvement! No clues how to create that opposite attraction.
 
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