"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Flippinfreak
- Thread starter The Bad Ass Canadian
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
The reality of the internat. Remainds me of the days in highschool i spent on MSN Chat, talking to some hot chick that turend out to be a white trash indian who droped out of highschool to have a kid. The unfotionate truth is; we don't know who anybody is on here. I for example could be a 60 year old grama trying to kill time in between diper changes.....flippinfreak said:I've been here since August, and have amassed nearly 3000 posts. COmpleted numerous bootcamps, and sent countless PM's to people. I've had 5 accounts(always for the reason of erasing public opinion)...
......I am putting myself through some rigorous homeschooling, since I fvcked my opportunity in University last time aroundToo many parties, so much slacking, sleep is a virtue, and being able to work while watching movies and smoking weed all day is bliss........So the information I get from you guys, is going to be put into work in real-time, as are all of the ideas I have brought up in site. I am not KBJ, I also hate posting verbatim advice.
it's a brave new world.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Say hi to mine one of these days, she's in your town somewhere.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Hmmm. And I thought I posted too much.Jariel said:
Flipinfreak, you should really think about this.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I thought Rainman was just another poster on this board
Silly me, I've never even heard of the movie. Trivial facts, like saying uuuuh, "Dustin Hoffman is an actor, he had the lead role in Rainman", to me, that is trivial. There are so many different kinds of trivial information.... On this board, "when should I call her" "What should I do to make her like me" "Was this a neg hit or C&F" "What does this ******** mean" There are more, but my mind has erased it all, the stuff is retardedly trivial.I intellectualize things that are trivial out of my own pursuit. I have a purpose for doing so, which I cannot put into words. It is definitely helping me with my social life, which is in no way hindered by my posting on this board.
In the last 5 years, this is the only board I have posted on. 6 months out of 5 years is in my opinion not bad at all
If any of you have noticed... I am working on my nouning
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.