Flighty, or is it me.

[Woodrow68]

I am well aware of the all things you can do to run off a girl and the things to do to keep her. However, is it likely to get a flighty one that you cannot do anything with. One that may even begin to make you think you're doing something wrong when in fact it's out of your control. And yes, I've walked away for the second and final time!

What are the possibilities?

If this is the case, what are the warning signs to avoid these chicks?

 

[Radharc]

Look, the knowledge you learn here is good as rule of thumb, it´s tuned for the average, normal, women behaviour. Like in everything in life there are exceptions and outliers.

And sure there are some women, who by some unusuall combination of factors are just not into you, no matter if you´re Super DJ.

And there´s no magic bag of DJ tricks that will make every female on earth want to fvck you.

Not saying that is what happened to you, dont know your situation, maybe with more detail ppl can be more helpfull.

The warning sigs are low interest level after you made some sound moves on her and actually have a strong inner game.

 

[Woodrow68]

Without getting into too much detail, we started talking after her breakup and eventually started spending some time together and agreed to take it slow. Things were progressing very nicely. She was totally into me, but I was giving her space. Then all of a sudden she starts talking about not dating anyone for a while and maybe dating different people in the future, but that we have potential. At this point I back off and give her tons of space. Next thing I find out, she's spending time with some other guy almost immediately. She's trying to explain her way out of it, I think to keep me on a string, but I'm not buyin' it.
She's throwing out the whole I answer to no one and have no guilt.

She did something similar to me when she went back to her ex. Should have learned.