"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flew in out of state, slept together, offer her flight money?

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jnMissouri

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Ohso-Phresh said:
Moving to where she is even though it would work for you is generally a bad move. Better to have her move for you or move to a third place where it’s a fresh start for the both of you.

Mostly because she will have her social circle and will have higher status by default.
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Good points, I did consider starting over together someplace so that we are both giving something up and bonding more together in a new place, us against the world kind of thing, but didn't think of her social circles. Her business can technically be run remotely, she works from home she said. I don't want to live in my state anymore and have actively been traveling the country looking for a new place to call home. So my state is out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jnMissouri said:
Good points, I did consider starting over together someplace so that we are both giving something up and bonding more together in a new place, us against the world kind of thing, but didn't think of her social circles. Her business can technically be run remotely, she works from home she said. I don't want to live in my state anymore and have actively been traveling the country looking for a new place to call home. So my state is out.
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With flights so cheap, you could do a lot of adventure travel with her to scout. Darts on a dartboard kinda thing. Airports and planes are pretty empty rn.
 
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jnMissouri said:
She sees me at my place. My live in moved out months ago after I finally broke things off. I did buy our meals.
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You know what happens when you give money to a woman you are dating/fvcking/ interested........ Her ego goes thru the roof up high all the way to Mars..... It also makes her believe you love or lost your head for her, and she feels like you are buying her and she is a hoe......... Don't ever give money Mr.nice guy cause you will be done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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