"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Flaw of the DJ Bible

ZenGodMod

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Aaah my first Opening Post. So let me start with a warm up.

I’ve read the DJ Bible, and many versions of it since 1999 version to the latest KillaPeteHog version.
I’ve read the Bible from King James Version till the new “Teens” simplified version (I’m note Christian, just like to read).

The DJ Bible has the same flaws as the Bible it self.

1. Misinterpretation
2. Selective interpretation.
3. Including Misassumptions and
4. Assumptions.

Lets start off with an easy example.

C+F, the common technique published in the bible. C+F First suffers from misinterpretation. How to be ****y and how to be funny!? The DJ bible alone doesn’t give point-to-point, day-to-day situational use of the C+F so it can’t be really blamed here.

But what follows is this.

A junior DJ will attempt C+F, lets add kino and he’ll fail, he’ll come to SS and post like this:

“I slapped her back side and told her a horse joke. Man she slapped me”

Replies would end up being like:

“Your kino was wrong”
“Your ****y, was just poppy ****”
“Your not funny”
“You got slapped….sweeet! Wish someone would touch me”

Then there will be those with selective interpretation who mastered the bible speak.

“The DJ bible says, “A real man doesn’t give a ****””
“The DJ Bible doesn’t mean you do Jerk+Stupidity”
“Start spinning plates, because your too focused one girl”
“Its okay Jerks win, Nice Guys lose”

Doesn’t it sound like familiar? Like sitting in a crowd of fundamental Christian’s yet of course the subject is different.

Anyway, the OP by now would be confused, defensive and lost faith in our bible.

This is the reason why the Christian population has also decreased. People have just become frustrated. It becomes a big joke.

Too much head spinning.

So what should be done?

Here my suggestion. We should no longer call it the DJ Bible. Rather we call it that DJ Guide Books. Calling it the DJ Bible gives it too much valiance where it shouldn’t. Too much seriousness there is none.

Also we should stop being like Christian fundamentalist and be like fathers to the juniors, be more encouraging.

"go son, keep trying"
"its okay, it happened to the best of us, try again"

Aaaahhh, I’m done.

Oh!

What I do particular like about the DJ Bible, is it keeps trying to add new ideas on to old. While the bible we try to find new interpretations out of the old ideas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aifia

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lol the name isn't gonna change the problems with it
 

SinJester

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I'm writing a compilation about the false beliefs that can arise from following the DJ Bible to religously, but you haven't reallt told us what's wrong with it? In your example you don't give what you think the correct response would be. Anyway I don't think it's that bad.
 

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Let me just say this. It's not so much what you say it's how you say it. That should be the focus.
 

ZenGodMod

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Thanks guys, I'm done with the warm up!

Even I didn't understand what I wrote! But the practice helped!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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