"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flaky ***** text hell... ***** not worth my time

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Me: Can I get your number?

Her: For what reason?

Me: Never mind, sorry I asked.

Her: Don't be sorry

Me: Whatever

Me: I want to ask you out on a date but it seems like all you want is a chat buddy. I don't have time for that honestly, I want a woman who can at the very least date. If that isn't you then let me know so I don't have to waste any more time on you.

Her: I don't mind going on a date with ou.... I told you that.

Me: I'm deleting this app and you so if it's that big a deal I'm fine with that. I like you but I'm not your friend.

Her: Don't all good relationships begine with friendships

Me: I want to meet and date you not chat over over bull. I donb't want to be your friend I want to date

Her: I am looking for friends first... you know that

Me: Well go to a gay bar then. How can you be friends over a text msg anyway. Good luck.

Her: It is more possible than you think.

Me: I'm over thinking goodbye.

How are you over thinking


Put this ***** in her place or next?

I would love to meet her but if this is her attitude we will destroy each other, and I won't give up on that ****...

Insufferable slvts I love them, but I can't live with them.

Am I setting myself up for a fall or can I turn this shrew into a tamed female receptacle for my sperm?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dgwizdal

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You're an AFC and your game is terrible. Literally every line you had was from a place of weakness. You created zero attraction and have no value. You come off as needy, insecure, and desperate and she is repulsed. You are creep-zoned.
 

Dgwizdal

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DJ Bible - gotta get your head right and learn how women's minds work. You cannot just say "I am high value - date me". Bounce aroud the bible, the book of pook, and bradd80's guide and you'll be off to the races.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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thelastmanonearth said:
Me: Can I get your number?

Her: For what reason?

Me: Never mind, sorry I asked.

Her: Don't be sorry

Me: Whatever

Me: I want to ask you out on a date but it seems like all you want is a chat buddy. I don't have time for that honestly, I want a woman who can at the very least date. If that isn't you then let me know so I don't have to waste any more time on you.

Her: I don't mind going on a date with ou.... I told you that.

Me: I'm deleting this app and you so if it's that big a deal I'm fine with that. I like you but I'm not your friend.

Her: Don't all good relationships begine with friendships

Me: I want to meet and date you not chat over over bull. I donb't want to be your friend I want to date

Her: I am looking for friends first... you know that

Me: Well go to a gay bar then. How can you be friends over a text msg anyway. Good luck.

Her: It is more possible than you think.

Me: I'm over thinking goodbye.

How are you over thinking


Put this ***** in her place or next?

I would love to meet her but if this is her attitude we will destroy each other, and I won't give up on that ****...

Insufferable slvts I love them, but I can't live with them.

Am I setting myself up for a fall or can I turn this shrew into a tamed female receptacle for my sperm?
Me: Can I get your number?

Her: For what reason?

Me: So I can post it on the wall in the men's bathroom. Why do you think I want it?
(depends on your report and if she knows you're just fvcking around. But you get the point.)


This chick should have been put in her place the second she asked a stupid question like that. Either answer with a question like: Have you ever been asked for your number before?? What's usually the reason? Or give her a non-serious response. Let her know, without directly saying it, how stupid it is that she asked it.

She was fishing for compliments, for you to prop up her ego. That's probably why she's stringing you along. You're her online orbiter.

Fvck that $hit, block and move on. Next.

Also, you said "Can I get your number". When asking for a number it should be effortless, i.e. "what's your number". You were putting her on the pedestal by asking if you could have it. I don't go for the number until it's going to be a seamless process. And, when I'm dealing with chick's online, I actually try to get them offer it up to me without me even having to ask :up:
 
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