flaky chic getting flakier ??

[bootlegger]

I went into the mall yesterday, and much to my suprise a girl whom I had next'ed comes running out of the store calling my name. I looked around but didn't see anyone, so I kept walking, and she came after me yelling my name.

I proceeded to talk to her for a few minutes, passing a few shyte tests along the way, and never giving her what she wanted. She grabbed my phone and started snooping around. then she hit me, because I didn't have her number in it. She then put her number in it.

I left, like I was in a hurry.

anyway.

This is one of the flakiest bytchees I've ever dealt with, and I'm wondering if you guys think this is something an attention wh0re would do, or is it too aggressive for an attention wh0re?

 

[Marlimus]

All ***** is not created equal.

Some women are worth your time, others are not.

You nexted her, let her stay that way.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

All she cares about is attention bro, its obivious. You should know this by now, I don't think the guys on this board understand what next means. If you next a girl, you don't open the door for her again because she flirted with you.

This chicks' lame


PIMP

 

[flexion_]

Just delete the phone number and have a nice day.

 

[BrotherAP]

You should have tried confronting her about her flakiness. It would have been nice to hear how she responded to "actually, i didn't have your number because it was just wasting space, considering that you'd just make a lame excuse every time I invited you somewhere"

Just as long as you said that in a friendly way, so you don't sound whiney.

I mean, honestly if a girl's actions confuse you call her out on it. Ask her why she's flirting with you (you can point out her flirty behaviours) if she's not intersted in going anywhere with you. If you've nexted her already anyway, you've got nothing to lose.

 

[Centaurion]

It could be that she had a change of heart. If it were me, I'd call her and try to set up something. IF she flakes on that, I'd delete her number and forget her for good.

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Should be "flaky chic getting nexted ??"

Fvck her or flee her.

Ok I gotta confess I didn't read your post. This just seemed like good advice.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

This is how I deal with flaky girls friend or possible girlfriend:

1. be nice - I'm friendly, I don't pull any energy wasting c+f routines
2. be brief - she should do most of the talking, but the convo should not go further than 5 min.
3. low expectations - if i ask her out or i discount that she'll actually show up and make my own plans.

remember, anyone who considers you a friend or wants to be your friend will make time for you. girls who are interested in you will try to be friends with you, not make you into one.

 

[Legend]

i would call her up and try to set up a time to hang out. You could maybe be to sensitive. Give her another shot....just dont get to attached. I dont even see the problem. I never get attached to a girl right away. It takes me months. Im not breaking my heart once a week anymore. I got better shyt to do with my time.

The minute i get bad vibes from a chick, f her....shes out the door and im over it the same day. Its not worth worrying about.

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