Flaky biatch

[VRsex]

I called this girl (on monday) that I met and wanted to meet up with her but she had just got off work and was walking to her friends house; I called on wednesday again and told her I'd take her out thurs but she has night school until 11:30pm on thurs so that's late but she said friday afternoon is good, so I said cool...
I called around 5 on friday and nobody picked up, and she had no voice mail.. she never called back or anything. The thing is, last time I called her(a couple days b4 this) and nobody picked up, she called me back later that day, but I wasn't home, so I guess she's a little interested at least... anyways I don't wanna just next her, I wanna call her and tell her directly to not flake and make her mind, is that wise? or what should I do? thanks

btw I saw this somewhere else is this better than calling her out for falking?

"I say, give it a week and call her back. If she pulls the same thing and doesn't counter offer, tell her "Well, you got my number so when you know you are free call me." then throw her number away and NEXT."

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I don't think you should call her on it. If you call her on it, that tells her it got to you. You don't want her knowing that, because it puts her in control.

What you want to do is basically ignore it and don't mention it. Withdraw a lot of your attention from her. That will send a much stronger message than calling her out on her flaky behaviour. This will put you in control.

 

[VRsex]

so calling her back in a week and asking to meet up is better? that's what I'm thinking

 

[tmpgstx]

How do you know she called back later in the day (you have a roomate?) or did she say she did?

No msg machine? Don't plan something for Friday and not be around soundz like an AW all the way! How do they have time for all their admirers ..

 

[VRsex]

she talked to my dad haha
whats AW

 

[VRsex]

?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by VRsex
she talked to my dad haha
whats AW

AW means "attention wh0re". It is used to describe a girl that only leads guys on for the attention she gets from it. She has no interest in the subject in question.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Calling girls on their bullshyt is only advisable when your dating them or when they're your gf. You haven't established any sort of relationship with this byatch!! However she's already giving you plenty of signals of LOW INTEREST!! So rather than fret over it, throw her number away and find a replacement!!!

And NO don't call again in a week, you already look desperate by the sheer amount of phone calling in a week. Don't call anymore its overkill.


She does sound like a bit of an attention lover.



PIMP

 

[Rockadeimis]

I stopped reading after the third, "I called"...if there was any interest, you wouldn't be the one doing all the calling my friend.

 

[themanwithnoname]

women who play twisted games like this were raped or molested when young.