"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Flaking out on a girl... Sort of

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OK, so I put this in my journal but figure I won't get responses to that.

Long story short: Been chatting to a girl from OKC, got number, organised date for this weekend.

But now I have to cancel due to work, and she flies home for Christmas the day after.

Any particular tips for this? Maintaining her IL would be good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sorted. She suggested we meet the day she gets back after Christmas, assuming she hasn't found some c0ck to ride on before then.
 
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omega05 said:
look at that. you solved your own problem.
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So many more could if they weren't so desperate and afraid of failing.

Not trying is the biggest fail. People should try, then report the mess back and learn lots in the process. Shame they all try to be perfect all of the time.:D
 
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