"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flaking on women is amazing

skinnyguy

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I had dates lined up for both Friday and Saturday and I just flaked on both of them.

The Friday girl likes me a lot but I would rather get work done tomorrow night and go to bed early. The Saturday girl, who is from Europe, has been giving me **** tests on Whatsapp all week and I wanted to crush her ego. To be honest I think she might have flaked if I didn't flake first, but now the beauty of it is that it seems like she is chasing me.

Not being dependent on women to have a good weekend is pretty liberating. On Saturday I'm going to go see Sully with family members. 10 years ago I would have gone out with any bimbo, but now that I'm older my priorities have really shifted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Good for you. It's liberating.
 
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