"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flaking is a sign of low IL, but what if she never flakes on you?

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pete101

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the girl im seeing is a self confessed flake, she cancels on people all the time and she loses friends cos of this. BUT with me she never ever cancels (a sign of current temporary high interest) but i imagine it's only a matter of time before she'll start cancelling on me if she starts to lose IL or get bored.

are you suppose to avoid flakey girls completely even if they never flake on you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's a preemptive excuse for flaking in the future, or an attempt to appear more aloof. What a retarded thing to say, "I flake all the time."

What she's saying is : "When I do start to flake, be sure to next my a$$ so I will be sure I really want you."
 
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well if she's not flaking on you now, thats a good sign. keep up the good work, stay on your toes, and keep her IL high.

I'm probably a worse flake than most chicks out there just because I have so much sh!t going on all the time. but it doesn't mean I have low IL

she could be the same. and the fact that she doesn't flake on you is a good sign
 
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