"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flaking is a sign of low IL, but what if she never flakes on you?

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pete101

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the girl im seeing is a self confessed flake, she cancels on people all the time and she loses friends cos of this. BUT with me she never ever cancels (a sign of current temporary high interest) but i imagine it's only a matter of time before she'll start cancelling on me if she starts to lose IL or get bored.

are you suppose to avoid flakey girls completely even if they never flake on you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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It's a preemptive excuse for flaking in the future, or an attempt to appear more aloof. What a retarded thing to say, "I flake all the time."

What she's saying is : "When I do start to flake, be sure to next my a$$ so I will be sure I really want you."
 
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dj_china

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well if she's not flaking on you now, thats a good sign. keep up the good work, stay on your toes, and keep her IL high.

I'm probably a worse flake than most chicks out there just because I have so much sh!t going on all the time. but it doesn't mean I have low IL

she could be the same. and the fact that she doesn't flake on you is a good sign
 
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