"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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flakey g/f...

cyjay201

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today my g/f told me she had plans for the next two weeks and was booked....which really pissed me off, considering that i know she has a past of lying. one day was her mom's b-day, next three days she's going on college visits, that weekend she's going camping at the dunes, followed by her brother's b-day, and the only day that she said she was available she said "Ummm...i dont think I have anything on that day, but there's something in the back of my head that says I do."

She then asked if i was mad, and i said "no, just annoyed that all of a sudden you're so busy. then i said i gotta go, bye"

Why don't women just say they want to break-up? I hate **** like this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flakey girls piss me off, esp if you confront them over it they get in a mood and put it all back on you.

Best thing you can do is ignore her show her she can't do that to you. go out with other girls.
 

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
dude how many different times are you gonna post that same thing?
sorry, i didn't even know that it was posted three times. it kept saying error everytime i posted it. if a mod could merge the three id appreciate it.

as for the girl, i dont even give a ****. she immed me yesterday and asked if i was mad, i told her that i wasn't, just surprised that she was so busy all of a sudden, i told her i had to go and i signed off.
 
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