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[IHBWAP]

So I set up a date with this girl and when i tried to confirm the date, she texted saying that she was tired and just wanna a grab a drink on friday instead

What should i do? Next her? No reply?

 

[PokerStar]

well she counter offered which is a good sign that her level of interest is not that low.

i would probably take her on that offer but you lead to where the drinks are being taken place.

Now, if she flakes on the counter offer I would then next her for a little bit.

 

[oneboy21]

^^^ Pokerstar said it
You lead the meeting and conversation when you meet her, try to raise her attraction level.

 

[IHBWAP]

I am sorry guys, should have also mentioned that this is already the 2nd change of plans in the same date.

So basically from place A to to place B, and now no place B, just drinks at fir (place C)

 

[Tiguere]

call her thursday night and make definite plans for friday. tell her which bar/ lounge and what time you gonna be picking her up or maybe tell her to meet u there.

let her drink and let her talk and just nod. the less you say the better. anything you say will be used againts you. you may mention something scary like youre a republican when shes a hardcore liberal or that you hate kittycats. just say as little as possible

 

[Johnnyventana]

Next time, when you make the date, include the place and time and be done with it. Just go. Do not do the re-confirming thing. It looks weak. If she doesn't show, oh well. There's your answer. But cut down on the boring re-confirming and in-between talk stuff. Set a date, time and place, and likely she will be there. It really is that easy.