"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flaked twice...

mO 64 StAnG 06

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Wow, got flaked twice today basically.

The first girl agreed on meeting each other up at Starbucks today this morning. She seemed interested and excited that I asked her so I figured it was cool.

Called her yesterday and didn't answer, so I gave her the benefit of a doubt that she was working that night and I called her again this morning. And her phone was off... lol

So I'll give her another chance then. But I could care less if it ended with her coming up to work to meet me twice and that's it. And she is 15... Too young. Im 18.

Then just in case something like this happened, I had a back up plan.

This one girl I sort of new back in school which is now my sister's friend came up where I work and we exchanged #'s after a short conversation. Afterwards my sister tell's me she is really hoping we would hang out and thinks im cute. So... I figured she would love to get together and I set up to meet at a park at this time now. And she didn't answer! lol

So son of a *****, flaked twice and neither of them called me back yet... Too shy I guess, but I find this sort of funny. Should I give these girls another chance and tell them whats up when they flake on me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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give them another chance , but dont say it was oki that they flaked... be a little serious and a little joking , not mad! ,and explain they only get one chance ,and that flaking and not calling is a sh1tty childish thing to do , that your time is worth something , stand up for yourself and they will respect you and not do it again.....
 

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You flaked on her.

Seriously, you agreed to meet at Starbuck's this morning. Just go.

So her phone was off? Do you know why her phone was off? Because she was going on a date, with you, and it's disrespectful to leave it on.
 

mO 64 StAnG 06

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So uh... How many 15 year old's do you know that can drive on their own.

I didn't flake on anyone. She could have atleast answered my call twice. If I see her again I'll bust her balls on it like i've been doing the whole time :).
 

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dude i don't care if it's only 3 years, is she at least in high school? and I'm only saying this if you are in HS as well...because if you aren't, then damn am I shaking my head
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mO 64 StAnG 06

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LOL, Alright, I graduated early so I am out of school.

But I didn't even care for this girl. I was just walking by doing my routine checks where I work and she told me to buy a CD for her out of nowhere while a co-worker was making a move on this girl.

I assumed she was 17 so I just went ahead and flirted with her and negged the **** out of her. After a few minutes I found out her age and that put me off. But I had to ask none the less, practice you know.

Im not even considering banging the chick, even though she is an 8.

But the other two im talking to are of age, so its alright...
 
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