confusedstate
Don Juan
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I was on plentyoffish last summer and was going on vacation to Florida and looking for local women to hang out with, possibly sex. I messaged this HB6/7 and asked her if she wanted to get together when I was down there. We ended up exchanging a few messages, then talking on the phone.
It wasn't "like that"...she offered to be a tour guide...show me the hot spots...social proof, and so on. She said what stood about me was that I was an average, all-american looking guy and that I didn't message her with some sex thing. When we talked, it was just as friends. She even gave me nude pics of her and told me where she was going to be after work.
So I texted her when I arrived there, didn't hear anything from her. So showed up to the place, and she was there. I went up to her asked her if it was her, she said yes, but had a total b*tch shield on and pretended she didn't know who I was. Keep in mind, this didn't seem to be a looks thing...rather a "I don't want anyone approaching me" kind of HB b*tch shield.
Everyone I've talked to who does well with women has said that her friends probably talked her out of it...either "Oh he just wants sex" or "Don't hang out with some loser from out of town." Her friends that she was with were also UG, so that explains that...maybe they were jealous and didn't want her hanging with another guy.
The last time I'd talked to her, if anything she was more interested than I was...blabbing on and on and I told her I had to go (without cutting her off.) So is that the likely explanation, she told her friends "I'm going to show this out of town guy around" then they c*ckblocked?
The good thing is, it didn't ruin my vacation in any way. I hit up the bars and clubs that same night, and met several women on the vacation. The me of 5 years ago would have probably had a fit.
It wasn't "like that"...she offered to be a tour guide...show me the hot spots...social proof, and so on. She said what stood about me was that I was an average, all-american looking guy and that I didn't message her with some sex thing. When we talked, it was just as friends. She even gave me nude pics of her and told me where she was going to be after work.
So I texted her when I arrived there, didn't hear anything from her. So showed up to the place, and she was there. I went up to her asked her if it was her, she said yes, but had a total b*tch shield on and pretended she didn't know who I was. Keep in mind, this didn't seem to be a looks thing...rather a "I don't want anyone approaching me" kind of HB b*tch shield.
Everyone I've talked to who does well with women has said that her friends probably talked her out of it...either "Oh he just wants sex" or "Don't hang out with some loser from out of town." Her friends that she was with were also UG, so that explains that...maybe they were jealous and didn't want her hanging with another guy.
The last time I'd talked to her, if anything she was more interested than I was...blabbing on and on and I told her I had to go (without cutting her off.) So is that the likely explanation, she told her friends "I'm going to show this out of town guy around" then they c*ckblocked?
The good thing is, it didn't ruin my vacation in any way. I hit up the bars and clubs that same night, and met several women on the vacation. The me of 5 years ago would have probably had a fit.
